Monday, December 24, 2012

Where-o-where could my puppeteer be?

It's pleasingly weird to see how different indiviuals have different situations to deal with. Its been a while since i had a looooooooooong ( erm.... 3 hours) conversation where we together are trying to get to the root cause of the problem.

Of what i can remember:

This friend of mine is mind-fucked with a few things surrounding her life. She has been married for a year now to the one she was dating. Truly, it was some sort of battle that she fought to get so far. But i really wonder how some people's comments have influenced her thought process so much that she is withdrawing into a shell of her own. Those very comments have put her into a trance that she is mincing and dicing the thoughts in her head so much so that she fears that her marriage will fall apart only cause she is not "the wife" material. Any outsider might think the person hasnt reasoned it out logically and is quite cuckoo whatsoever. Is it just the impulsiveness that drives people to the extremes? I firmly believe that she shouldnt care about what the world says as long her bond with her husband is the way they want it to be. Taking advices in the right spirit to get into a mode of self-realization is alright but not percieveing it in a different tangent and acting totally demented .

My dear pal: Time will heal so take it one step at a time and be a little patient

I just cant stop wondering how people know what they are doing is wrong and still do it cause they derive some kind of pleasure out of it. Makes me ask, do u intend to please your self first or the others?

I so strongly believe that life is like a pre-defined process. The steps or activities are already pre-defined and we as humans are just puppets who are treading through that path.


Where-o-where could my puppeteer be?

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